We often hear that a first date can seem like a job interview and we should do everything within our power to make it much more enjoyable than that (and less nerve-racking, too). Sure, that’s all well and good, but don’t we have to ask the guy questions so we can get to know him? Doesn’t he expect us to ask him questions? And if Sunnyvale local hookup free that’s the case, then what questions should we be asking him?
“I always treat the first date like I’m talking to a friend I haven’t seen in a while. Let the conversation flow naturally without thinking of a set of questions. Try to pick up things on the initial “about me” and expand. If you’re really interested it will be easy.”
That’s such a nice, lovely thing to hear, and it’s especially nice since it’s the opposite of what we sometimes hear (that guys are “whipped” if they’re in a serious relationship or if they’re married)
This guy’s Reddit post is super helpful and also really comforting. We should definitely take his advice and approach the first date like this. He wants to feel like he’s talking to an old friend and like the conversation just works and there’s no stress or particular questions that we have to ask or answer. That seems so much more enjoyable than coming up with a list of questions ahead of time, so this is great to hear.
When we start dating someone new, we immediately wonder about the girls that they’ve dated before us. What were they like? Does he like us more than he liked them (and, of course, we want the answer to be “yes, of course”)? How many girlfriends has he had?
On the flip side, do guys want to know how many guys we’ve dated and do they care about our romantic history? It’s a question that has for sure crossed our minds. Read More